HOW SONDRA USED THE "COSMIC DATING SERVICE" TO FIND HER MAN !!!!

When I felt ready to have a relationship, I decided I did not want any "ordinary" relationship.
I definitely did not want an unholy relationship. I wanted an extraordinary Holy Relationship and nothing less. Just one characteristic of that I figured was "DEEP EASE". So I thought I better achieve that in myself first. I meditated on that a whole year to prepare myself. That was the
beginning.

Then I told my Master Babaji I wanted a Cosmic Tie and he could chose my mate. After all, only He would know the karma of any man and the ability to handle the future; and he would know who on earth could handle my lifestyle as a public figure. Not easy! It had to be someone
very spiritual and very unique. The second year I began to bring him nearer to me by a means that made my roommates laugh. I bought him (whoever it was) several presents and wrapped them. This was fun and quite a riot since I did not know who I was shopping for. I bought
a Brooks Brothers Shirt, Sandalwood cologne (outstanding!), and a white gold ring. So I had to guess at the size and since it was expensive, that was a risk for sure. I wrapped these presents
and put them under the stairwell, much to the entertainment of my roommates!

I was not in a hurry because I knew he would come when I was ready so I kept on praying to be ready. However the third year I got really really serious about this. I started doing a mantra
every day "Sat Patim Dehi Parameshwara" You have to speak it correctly and that is:
(Saht Pah-teem Day-Hee/PahRahm EshwarRah) and do it l08 times daily on the mala beads.
This was enjoyable and the meaning is this: "I want a man who will honor me and respect my
power; who will use my energy honestly and unselfishly without any anger or resentment"

The final thing I did was write him letters as if he was already here. I would start the letters
with "Dear Beloved" and I would share all my feelings and so on. This made it quite real.
Also I did the affirmation "I am so happy and grateful that the perfect man for me is here now"
You really have to make it real in present time.

I have to admit that I thought I would be meeting some international figure. I never ever dreamed he would come to me in Philadelphia! Mark had been completing a divorce and somehow he got a flyer in the mail that I was doing a seminar in Phillie. He decided to come to honor me and
give me gratitude for all I had led him to spiritually. I did not even recognize him because
I had known him and his wife 20 years ago and he was a Sikh then and totally different.
The day after the seminar he came to me for a consultation? I blurted out: "What are you doing
here, I mean, how could I consult you? You seem so clear!"
He told me he had come only to express gratitude and he gave me a hefty tithe. I then asked
him if I could see his art. I did not even get at the time this could be the one; but Babaji took over There were two Babaji devotees there in Phillie from Europe. Diana from London and Shanti from
Paris. They did kind of an "intervention" on me and they both said" Don't you get it that this is the ONE? " They were so insistant that I started to wake up to the possibility. Mark had given me his journal by chance and I started reading it. It was SO DEEP.
Here was a man who was a rebirther like myself/ a Course in Miracles teacher like myself/
a writer like myself/ a student of Hawaiian Ho O PonoPono like myself/ a Babaji devotee like myself.. Was he my Twin Flame in actuality.? So I called him and said I needed a new
Ho O Pono Pono book as mine was all beat up. He gave me the number of the woman who could help me with that. I emailed her and she said " Come Over" I called Mark and asked him
if he could drive me there and he said "Certainly". When I got in his car I had the shock of my life. He had a huge picture of my Kahuna teacher between him and me and I had never even seen that amazing picture. How many men would even know my Kahuna teacher Morrnah (pure Hawaiian Kahuna) let alone have a picture of her? That was a huge breakthrough and I really opened my heart. He took me and my assistant to dinner after that visit and I kept saying to myself "He is soo deeep." So after the dinner as we walked across the plaza I put my arm through his and he liked that.

So when we got back to the Philadelphia Rebirthing center, the "buzz" was that we were already
an item. We did not get it TOTALLY: but the following week I was in Ashville , N. C. for the
first time and Valentines Day was coming up. So I called Mark and asked him if he wanted come down and spend Valentine's Day with me. The rest is history. It was sooo easy and
wonderful.
P.S. Later when he came to California, the shirt fit perfectly, he loved the Cologne and
even the ring was a perfect fit.

Mark proposed to me in Nashville. We were married in Babaji's ashram a year later.

Sondra Ray